I get to be dad again!

midlifekrisiz · 06-27-2011, 01:45 PM

nooo the g/friend isn't pregnant (that would be a great lawsuit)

my 8 yr old son that lives in Whitehorse is comming to live with us permanantly and this will cancle our trip that we planned on taking to the yukon.

his mom can't "handle" him anymore :roll: HE'S 8 YOU STUPID WOMAN!

guess I have another riding buddy now.

FastDoc · 06-27-2011, 01:54 PM

Praise God! Sounds like the best possible outcome under the circumstances.

midlifekrisiz · 06-27-2011, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by FastDoc

Praise God! Sounds like the best possible outcome under the circumstances.

well he sleeps on her couch because he doesn't have his own room up there (kids need their own space) and we are just about done with setting up his room.
and he will not be yelled at, belittled or have religion crammed down his gullet (not knocking you that have found god but i do not beleive nore do i think it should be crammed into a kid)

he likes 4x4ing, quadding and food so he should fit right in here lol

Weldangrind · 06-27-2011, 08:45 PM

Excellent news!

The young lad is always welcome to tag along with us to church. I'd never cram religion into him.

It really sounds like he's gonna have a great time with you. I look forward to meeting him at Nickelmine.

midlifekrisiz · 06-27-2011, 09:01 PM

thanks guys I am sure we can make things work here....as far as going to church....if he says he wants to go then I will make arrangements for him but only if he asks.

I think nicklemine is the first place we will take him for starters.

SpudRider · 06-28-2011, 02:49 AM

I'm glad your son is coming to live with you, since you obviously want him around, and his mother doesn't.

I also think your son might enjoy going to church with Weldangrind.

Spud

midlifekrisiz · 06-28-2011, 03:38 AM

guys please do not push religion around me (i can get in a right nasty mood) like i said ..."if" he asks to go then i will arraign it for him but if he doesn't ask then I am not mentioning it.

his mother did a 180 from what we were to religion and tries to force it on everyone around her ....this is what pushed my 12 (now 14) year old step son out of her house to live with his grandmother and now i think it has taken it's toll on the 8 yr old.

I do not disrespect anyone that has found religion I am a man of science and have been that way since i was 12 and nothing anyone can say will ever change my mind. This almost got me kicked out of scouting many yrs ago and I had to write to the governor general (the chief scout of Canada) and plead my case to get written permission to be a scout without religion and I achieved the highest award that a scout can get and all done without being involved in religion.

SpudRider · 06-28-2011, 03:53 AM

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Originally Posted by midlifekrisiz

guys please do not push religion around me (i can get in a right nasty mood) like i said ..."if" he asks to go then i will arraign it for him but if he doesn't ask then I am not mentioning it...

I'm sorry if I offended you, MidLife. We're not "pushing religion," and respect your decisions regarding the raising of your son.

However, you first raised the subject. I merely stated I believe your son would enjoy going to church with Weldangrind.

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Originally Posted by midlifekrisiz

...I do not disrespect anyone that has found religion I am a man of science and have been that way since i was 12 and nothing anyone can say will ever change my mind. This almost got me kicked out of scouting many yrs ago and I had to write to the governor general (the chief scout of Canada) and plead my case to get written permission to be a scout without religion and I achieved the highest award that a scout can get and all done without being involved in religion.

I'm sorry to hear of your unpleasant experience with scouting, Midlife. :( I also consider myself "a man of science," but have reached the opposite conclusion from you. Nevertheless, I certainly respect your beliefs, and would certainly never force you to believe otherwise.

Spud

midlifekrisiz · 06-28-2011, 04:01 AM

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Originally Posted by SpudRider

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Originally Posted by midlifekrisiz

guys please do not push religion around me (i can get in a right nasty mood) like i said ..."if" he asks to go then i will arraign it for him but if he doesn't ask then I am not mentioning it...

I'm sorry if I offended you, MidLife. We're not "pushing religion," and respect your decisions regarding the raising of your son.

However, you first raised the subject. I merely stated I believe your son would enjoy going to church with Weldangrind.

no offence it is just me ....my hackels go up as soon as it is mentioned....all good

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Originally Posted by midlifekrisiz

...I do not disrespect anyone that has found religion I am a man of science and have been that way since i was 12 and nothing anyone can say will ever change my mind. This almost got me kicked out of scouting many yrs ago and I had to write to the governor general (the chief scout of Canada) and plead my case to get written permission to be a scout without religion and I achieved the highest award that a scout can get and all done without being involved in religion.

I'm sorry to hear of your unpleasant experience with scouting, Midlife. :( I also consider myself "a man of science," but have reached the opposite conclusion from you. Nevertheless, I certainly respect your beliefs, and would certainly never force you to believe otherwise.

Spud

wasn't unpleasent more of a .....another hurdle in life that I (as a 13 yr old) had to jump and I set presidence for future kids that want to be scouts without having to worship a god.

I think maybe i jumped the gun here and I am sorry if i offended anyone as well.

Weldangrind · 06-28-2011, 10:16 AM

I'm certainly not offended, and I'm sorry if I ground your gears too much. I meant it when I said that I'd never cram religion into him.

I'm big on science too. I have a need to measure, quantify, prove or disprove just about anything. I just reached a point in my life where I found something to be true that didn't require proof. The position I've taken is to share what I can about it if someone asks me. I'm not shy about my faith, but I'd never push it on anyone.

I think it's really cool that you took your case right to the Scout Governor General at 13. I totally defend your right to your personal choices.

2LZ · 06-28-2011, 11:40 PM

Congrats midlife! Wow....an 8 year old again. I couldn't even imagine!
As my dad said, "Kids.....ya gotta love 'em but it's a Young Man's sport!"
Good luck and I know it's definitely the right thing for him!....and also, let's not forget to give credit to your current 'better half'. She has to be some wonderful woman to say, "Yah...let's cancel our vacation, Honey. This is far more important."
You got a keeper, it sounds like to me!

midlifekrisiz · 07-06-2011, 12:11 PM

2 MORE SLEEPS 2 MORE SLEEPS LOL

we actually can't wait to take him out quadding WOOOOOOT

katoranger · 07-06-2011, 12:26 PM

I am sure that he is looking forward to spending time with you.

midlifekrisiz · 07-08-2011, 10:22 PM

15 hrs to go 15 hrs to go!!!!!!

Weldangrind · 07-08-2011, 10:40 PM

Cool! How is he travelling?

06-27-2011, 01:45 PM	#1
midlifekrisiz Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Chilliwack, B.C., Canada eh Posts: 1,393	I get to be dad again! nooo the g/friend isn't pregnant (that would be a great lawsuit) my 8 yr old son that lives in Whitehorse is comming to live with us permanantly and this will cancle our trip that we planned on taking to the yukon. his mom can't "handle" him anymore :roll: HE'S 8 YOU STUPID WOMAN! guess I have another riding buddy now. __________________ I could be wrong......it has been known to happen<div><br /></div><div>core directive 172: No member of the core shall report for duty wearing a ginger toupee</div>
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06-27-2011, 01:54 PM	#2
FastDoc Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Southeastern Washington desert Posts: 14,761	Praise God! Sounds like the best possible outcome under the circumstances. __________________ Happy to serve.
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06-27-2011, 08:45 PM	#4
Weldangrind Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Sardis, BC, Canada Posts: 25,977	Excellent news! The young lad is always welcome to tag along with us to church. I'd never cram religion into him. It really sounds like he's gonna have a great time with you. I look forward to meeting him at Nickelmine. __________________ Weldangrind "I figure I'm well-prepared for coping with a bike that comes from the factory with unresolved issues and that rewards the self-reliant owner." - Buccaneer
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06-27-2011, 09:01 PM	#5
midlifekrisiz Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Chilliwack, B.C., Canada eh Posts: 1,393	thanks guys I am sure we can make things work here....as far as going to church....if he says he wants to go then I will make arrangements for him but only if he asks. I think nicklemine is the first place we will take him for starters. __________________ I could be wrong......it has been known to happen<div><br /></div><div>core directive 172: No member of the core shall report for duty wearing a ginger toupee</div>
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06-28-2011, 02:49 AM	#6
SpudRider Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Idaho Posts: 25,054	I'm glad your son is coming to live with you, since you obviously want him around, and his mother doesn't. I also think your son might enjoy going to church with Weldangrind. Spud __________________ Spud "Never argue with an idiot. He will drag you down to his level, and beat you with experience." Mark Twain 2015 Zongshen ZS250GY-3 (RX3) 2006 Zongshen ZS200GY-2 (Sierra 200) 2005 Honda XR650L 2004 Honda CRF250X 1998 Kawasaki KDX220 Mods made to my Zongshen ZS200GY-2: http://www.chinariders.net/showthread.php?t=6894
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06-28-2011, 03:38 AM	#7
midlifekrisiz Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Chilliwack, B.C., Canada eh Posts: 1,393	guys please do not push religion around me (i can get in a right nasty mood) like i said ..."if" he asks to go then i will arraign it for him but if he doesn't ask then I am not mentioning it. his mother did a 180 from what we were to religion and tries to force it on everyone around her ....this is what pushed my 12 (now 14) year old step son out of her house to live with his grandmother and now i think it has taken it's toll on the 8 yr old. I do not disrespect anyone that has found religion I am a man of science and have been that way since i was 12 and nothing anyone can say will ever change my mind. This almost got me kicked out of scouting many yrs ago and I had to write to the governor general (the chief scout of Canada) and plead my case to get written permission to be a scout without religion and I achieved the highest award that a scout can get and all done without being involved in religion. __________________ I could be wrong......it has been known to happen<div><br /></div><div>core directive 172: No member of the core shall report for duty wearing a ginger toupee</div>
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06-28-2011, 10:16 AM	#10
Weldangrind Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Sardis, BC, Canada Posts: 25,977	I'm certainly not offended, and I'm sorry if I ground your gears too much. I meant it when I said that I'd never cram religion into him. I'm big on science too. I have a need to measure, quantify, prove or disprove just about anything. I just reached a point in my life where I found something to be true that didn't require proof. The position I've taken is to share what I can about it if someone asks me. I'm not shy about my faith, but I'd never push it on anyone. I think it's really cool that you took your case right to the Scout Governor General at 13. I totally defend your right to your personal choices. __________________ Weldangrind "I figure I'm well-prepared for coping with a bike that comes from the factory with unresolved issues and that rewards the self-reliant owner." - Buccaneer
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06-28-2011, 11:40 PM	#11
2LZ Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Volcano, Ca Posts: 7,112	Congrats midlife! Wow....an 8 year old again. I couldn't even imagine! As my dad said, "Kids.....ya gotta love 'em but it's a Young Man's sport!" Good luck and I know it's definitely the right thing for him!....and also, let's not forget to give credit to your current 'better half'. She has to be some wonderful woman to say, "Yah...let's cancel our vacation, Honey. This is far more important." You got a keeper, it sounds like to me! __________________ "Light a fire for a man, and you heat him for a day. Light a man on fire, and you heat him for the rest of his life." 2007 Suzuki DRZ400S (SM convert) 2009 Q Link XP 200 1967 BSA B25 250cc Starfire 2022 Royal Enfield Interceptor 650 2023 Royal Enfield Scram 411 1948 Royal Enfield Model G 350
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07-06-2011, 12:11 PM	#12
midlifekrisiz Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Chilliwack, B.C., Canada eh Posts: 1,393	2 MORE SLEEPS 2 MORE SLEEPS LOL we actually can't wait to take him out quadding WOOOOOOT __________________ I could be wrong......it has been known to happen<div><br /></div><div>core directive 172: No member of the core shall report for duty wearing a ginger toupee</div>
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07-06-2011, 12:26 PM	#13
katoranger Join Date: May 2007 Location: Altamont, Kansas Posts: 15,103	I am sure that he is looking forward to spending time with you.
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07-08-2011, 10:22 PM	#14
midlifekrisiz Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Chilliwack, B.C., Canada eh Posts: 1,393	15 hrs to go 15 hrs to go!!!!!! __________________ I could be wrong......it has been known to happen<div><br /></div><div>core directive 172: No member of the core shall report for duty wearing a ginger toupee</div>
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07-08-2011, 10:40 PM	#15
Weldangrind Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Sardis, BC, Canada Posts: 25,977	Cool! How is he travelling? __________________ Weldangrind "I figure I'm well-prepared for coping with a bike that comes from the factory with unresolved issues and that rewards the self-reliant owner." - Buccaneer
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